It is never easy choosing between a fondness for sex toys and the love of your life. One thing is certain- neither you nor your partner will put one before the other because deep down you know that what you have is worth cherishing.
My girlfriend uses a rose toy after we are done.
Rose toys can be a wonderful addition to your relationship. They don’t have to take the place of intimacy with your partner, but they can be a way for both partners to explore their sexual desires without feeling threatened by the other person’s needs.
I think it depends on how you use them. If you use them in front of your partner and make comments about how sexy they are, then yes, it will probably ruin your relationship. But if you use them in private and keep them private, there’s no reason why that should be an issue at all.
Rose toys are not just for women who don’t have enough orgasms or for men who want to try new things with their partners; they’re also great tools for couples who want to spice things up in the bedroom. Whether single or married, most people will benefit from adding something new into their sex lives — whether that’s flavored lube or vibrators of different shapes and sizes!
Should I buy my wife a dildo that’s the same size as me or bigger?
If you think she would like something bigger, ask her but do make the mistake most guys make. Just get her a very good quality dildo 1 inch longer 1/2 thicker than your dick. when you go to use it on her, tell her what you’re doing and that you will stop the second she asks you to. Make sure you got her as horny as you can, then and only then ever so slowly work the pre-warmed, pre-lubed dildo inside her, go slowly and a fraction deeper each time. it doesn’t matter if she doesn’t take it all the first time, trust me she will sooner or later.
Talk to her about how she’s feeling, does she wants you to stop for a while, how it feels, how beautiful and sexy she looks, if you get this right your sex life will change for life
I just found my wife’s sex toy that I knew NOTHING about.
First thing – don’t panic! I can’t imagine that during your marriage you haven’t masturbated from time to time without your wife’s involvement so, there is that consideration to take in. More importantly, perhaps, many women have real difficulty achieving orgasm even with a loving and adequate partner. I certainly wouldn’t confront her about it but what I might do if I was you to buy a vibrator or some similar toy as a gift and surprise her some night in bed with it when you’re having foreplay and just say I think you might enjoy it and how excited you get seeing her orgasm.
Maybe she’ll be self-conscious about using a toy but maybe she’s open to it and will enjoy it. Please don’t feel as though her using a toy during sex means you’re inadequate in any way. It’s simply that a lot of women do legitimately have difficulty orgasming during sex and perhaps your wife is one of those women. Introducing a toy may help her discuss the matter with you and help her communicate her feelings, desires, and needs.
Are you okay with your wife using sex toys when you are not around?
As long as the sex toys are not being used to replace you in your relationship, then it should not affect it at all.
The use of sex toys is not something that I have ever asked my wife about, but I do know that she enjoys them and they do help her get more pleasure out of our sexual encounters.
I know that many couples use sex toys together regularly and I also know that many couples don’t like to use them at all.
Some people think that it is okay for their partner to use a vibrator while they are away on business trips or vacations, but they do not want their wives doing this when they are home.
I am sure there are many women out there that enjoy having an orgasm when their husband isn’t around, but I am also sure that there would be just as many who don’t feel comfortable enough with themselves or their bodies to try using one without their husbands around.
What sex fantasies do the wives have when their husband uses a dildo on them?
A recent study (Sex Toys and Relationship Happiness) has found that women who use sex toys, dildos, vibrators, and other sex aids are more satisfied with their sex lives. The study showed that these women were more sexually satisfied and had a better overall relationship with their partners.
When you think about it, this makes sense. After all, what if your partner has a fantasy you don’t want to fulfill?
I’ve heard from many wives that they’re worried about using vibrators or dildos on their husbands because they feel like they’re “cheating.” But the truth is that if your husband wants something different in bed than you do, then he’s cheating on you!
Do I tell my husband before I buy a sex toy or after, or should I hide it from him?
I’ve got a question for those of you who have been in this situation. My husband and I are getting ready to go on vacation and I’m thinking about buying a toy to use while we are away. Do I tell him before or after?
I’ve always wanted to try using one, but have never really had an opportunity to get one. Now that we are going on vacation, I think it’s the perfect time to try it out. The problem is that my husband is extremely jealous of any attention that isn’t given to him and he worries too much about what other people will think if they find out. He is also very conservative and would feel very uncomfortable if anyone knew I was using this kind of thing. So, do I tell him before or after? Do I hide it from him or just leave it out on the counter so he can see it?
Any advice from those of you who have been through this would be great!
In the end, fidelity boils down to intent and honesty. Honesty comes at the foundation of trust. If the use of a sex toy is meant to separate you and your partner by keeping you passive, apathetic, lonely, or distracted while using it, then that can ruin your relationship just as much as if your partner physically cheats on you.