Have you heard the buzz about sex toys for men? Yep, there’s a good chance some men are using them. If that makes you clutch your pearls and ask, “Are they whores?” relax. This article will take a look at things like this, why men use sex toys, and much more.
When I was 18 I spent the night at my best friend’s house with her partner when she whipped out a lime green vibrator
When I was 18 I spent the night at my best friend’s house with her partner when she whipped out a lime green vibrator. She was the first person I knew who owned one and it was so exciting!
I grew up in a small town, where everyone knew everyone and anything considered ‘alternative’ was kept on the DL. So when I saw this vibrator, I felt like I had been let in on a secret.
Fast forward 20 years and there is no more stigma around sex toys. In fact, men are buying them for themselves and for their partners.
Sex toys have come a long way since those first plastic phallic-shaped objects were sold under the counter at Spencer’s gift shop. Now you can find vibrators made from silicone or glass that feel realistic, dildos that double as anal plugs, and even condoms designed for internal stimulation (that’s right: inside your penis!). But why are these products so popular? And are they safe?
There are simply things sex toys can do that a human partner can’t
Sex toys are not just for women. Men are using them, too.
A recent study by Adam & Eve found that 61 percent of men have used sex toys in the last year. That’s a significant jump from the previous study in 2013, which found that only 39 percent of men had used sex toys during that time period.
There are simply things sex toys can do that a human partner can’t — like vibrating or heating up — and it makes sense that more and more men are taking advantage of this technology.
Men are also using sex toys for pleasure and foreplay, not just as an alternative to intercourse or masturbation. This makes sense since most men aren’t getting enough stimulation from their partners when it comes to foreplay anyway.
It was a very quick ‘yes’ from me when she suggested we begin experimenting with sex toys during sex
I was at a party recently when I was asked about my views on sex toys. I was surprised that this wasn’t the first time this had happened, but it made me think about how common the use of these products is.
It was a very quick ‘yes’ from me when she suggested we begin experimenting with sex toys during sex. But then she went on to say that her husband wasn’t sure if they were ‘just another excuse for women to be sexually unfaithful’!
I couldn’t believe what she was saying and asked her if she had ever used one before or if she knew what they were used for? She hadn’t and so I decided to explain why couples use them and how they can enhance your sex life.
Sex toys can be very revealing. Is the person you sleep with invested in your pleasure as well as theirs?
You don’t have to be a woman to use a vibrator or dildo. Plenty of men are experimenting with sex toys, and it’s not just because they want to please their partners.
Sex toys can be very revealing. Is the person you sleep with invested in your pleasure as well as theirs? Are they willing to try new things? Do they understand that the best sex toys aren’t just for women?
Men aren’t afraid to experiment with their bodies, either, whether it’s with condoms or lubricants designed specifically for male pleasure.
And if you think people won’t talk about it, think again. There are plenty of forums on Reddit where people openly discuss what type of sex toys they like, how they use them, and why they should try them out.
It’s easier for me to have an orgasm
Men are using sex toys and, if you’re a woman who loves sex toys, you can understand why.
Sex toys have come a long way since the days of vibrators and dildos. Men are getting in on the action and using them too.
It’s easier for me to have an orgasm. I don’t need to rely on my partner for that anymore. If he’s not around, it’s not the end of the world because I can still get off however I want! I think that most men would agree that this is pretty great news for us all!
With toys, we deliberately take our time and push each other to our limits
Men are using sex toys, and it’s not just because they’re single.
Men are using sex toys, and it’s not just because they’re single.
Sex toys aren’t just a hobby for women anymore. In fact, men now account for one-third of sex toy sales in the United States.
They are also becoming more comfortable with the idea of buying a vibrator for their partners.
If you’ve ever wondered why so many women use vibrators, it may have something to do with their partners.
A recent survey found that men who used sex toys were more likely to bring them into the bedroom and actually use them with their partners — or even on themselves than those who didn’t own any toys at all.
But this doesn’t mean that all men are ready to start buying vibrators for their girlfriends yet; most still don’t consider purchasing a sex toy an appropriate gift for their partner.
For men using sex toys, or who want to play sex
It’s tricky to know what a woman would feel comfortable with when it comes to using sex toys. If a man wants to try something out but isn’t sure if his wife/girlfriend/partner would like it, he can always ask her first and then surprise her with a beautiful gift – that way she doesn’t have time to think about it before she sees it.
It’s great to have my partner pick something she likes and then let me use it on her in ways we both like
My partner and I have the same kink, but different tastes in toys. She had a few spanking paddles that were good for her, but not for me. Instead of buying a new one every time we played, she picked one out on her own and then let me use it on her in ways we both liked. It was great!
Final words
The fact that more men are using sex toys demonstrates how open-minded Western culture has become, and how much more comfortable both genders are talking about sex. Whether it’s making larger purchases or trying a new experience altogether, men shouldn’t be shy about experimenting with their sexuality. It’s a part of life, so embrace it!
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